Everyone has had the experience of something being more tiresome because of the people involved. A job that was 65% coping with the boss, and a much smaller percentage of actual work; or, a relationship in which one person did everything and the other person simply complained and caused problems.
For an increasingly growing percentage of men, the stress is not worth the relationship. This is because women are taught that their needs and emotions come first, and men's considerations are not important. Since we are taught in the West that men are violent, racist, sexist oppressors, then they need to be disempowered and relegated to second-class status. This means men have much less authority, and are often attacked or ridiculed when they attempt to take up the leadership role which is their birthright.
Even after a decade of blowback against feminist extremes, the march toward sex role confusion continues full-throttle. Men are either laughed at or ignored. So, they commit less, simply talking women into bed when they feel the need for some companionship. Those who foolishly allow themselves to be locked into a relationship realized the fun ends the moment the relationship becomes established. There are thousands of stories on the Internet of men's disappointment and women's increasing dissatisfaction with men. Examples:
Jim moved in with Abby. They had great chemistry and lots of fun together. Jim had an indoor cat, and Abby thought it would be a good idea to let the cat outside. Jim had never let the cat out, so he realized there could be a problem. Abby let the cat out again and again. Many days were wasted looking for the cat around the neighborhood. Finally, Jim got angry and insisted the cat not be let outside. Abby of course ignored Jim's wishes and the cat was eventually run over by a car. Abby apologized and apologized, but that wasn't the point. The issue was that Abby's opinions were more important than Jim's rules.
Terry and Kate got married and were happy for a year. At the end of the first year, Terry's parents passed away within three months of each other. It was a very difficult time for Terry as he was an only child and took his parent's passing very hard. During the time right after losing his parents, Kate moved her sister into the couple's home, saying it was only temporary. The sister ended up living with Terry and Kate for years, and the stress and divided loyalties of Kate eventually broke up the marriage. During the time Terry needed Kate the most, she decided to take care of her sister instead of her husband. All her friends couldn't understand Terry's insensitivity, and didn't even notice Kate neglecting him during a very difficult time.
Sandy had never been lucky in love. She would find someone who was really a good match for her, then things would fall apart, or the guys would cheat on her. She thought all guys were pigs, all the same, and none of them could be trusted. However, she never told anyone that she had some bad habits. When she was with a guy, she would talk about other men and having sex with other men. She never learned that this kind of talk was a huge turnoff to about 99% of men. So, the guys didn't respect her and would dump her after a few weeks or a few months.
You see, men don't commit anymore because women make themselves too unattractive as partners. If you really do want to spend all your free time watching women's movies, or hanging out with her friends, then go ahead and commit to a relationship. If you want your house to reflect her tastes, and her tastes only, then go ahead and commit. The happy men, the men who enjoy women, basically pick them up and fuck them for a few weeks before moving on.
We aren't threatened that women have had other men in their lives. We aren't threatened that they have jobs and have their own homes and assets. We just don't have a place in a committed relationship if it means we are no longer allowed any leadership at all. We don't have a place if our feelings and needs are laughed at or ignored. We just aren't going to commit unless the situation for us is desirable. These days, commitment means no personal space, no individual freedom. Commitment means you are a slave tied to a woman; and her progressive/feminist/you can have-it-all attitude means you are only a paycheck or an accessory. Women are saying it more and more; men come and go, but friends are forever. Ironically enough, the men who only drop in temporarily on a woman are the ones who are happiest with their relationships, and actually have time to live their own lives. The ones who commit are miserable, or paying off the divorce/child support machine for many years.
And people wonder why men won't commit...
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